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“A man gives many question marks, however, a woman is a whole mystery.” ~Diana Stürm

There’s one thing I really like to discuss about, women and the issues related to them. I have come across many articles, blogs, posting about ‘what women exactly want?’, or ‘Ten things about what women desire.’ Etc…There are many others in the endless list of experiments. It’s actually a subtle explanation of our gestures, which are quite confusing for the so called breed named ‘men’. The crux is women never really know what they want. (I say this with firm pomp and proud, this goes for me as well. Just like Mignon McLaughlin once said, “No woman wants to see herself too clearly.")

We may show the excitement, the zeal and what ever emotion you may well relate to this, but at the end of the day the thing which we really look forward to is… a big fat ‘question mark’. We don’t know. We may go shopping for endless hours, spending on ‘the’ most beautiful dress, but still there could be things which are still hovering around us like a dark gloomy cloud.

As Sigmund Freud wrote "Even after my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, I have not yet been able to answer: WHAT DOES A WOMAN WANT?"

When to know your woman is fussed about something?
  •  She won’t answer you straight, unless you give up, “Okay honey, I’m off to bed. Let me know when you are done fuming over something so intangible.” (Yes. The biggest mistake of your life has just been committed. Never walk over an argument with a woman. Chances are, she would come right swinging at you and call you a heartless d***.)
“However, I'm not denying' the women are foolish:  God Almighty made 'em to match the men.  ~George Eliot
  •  She cuts the phone call in between, without the usual kisses at the end and the “I love you”. (Mostly guys won’t budge calling back. Yeah. Sweet. Don’t. You have called upon the hells wrath. She will be standing over your throat the next day.)
  • No matter what you are talking to her, the reply at the most would be, “Uhmm”, “okay”, “yeah”. If nothing, there would be this dark, almost suffocating silence. (A women’s silence is terrifying. She could almost kill you with that weapon. Try keeping it that way, and the answer would be, “Yeah, you must be celebrating! Great she isn't talking, finally!! How soothing the calmness is. Celebrate forever, because I am not talking with your for the rest of your god damn life.” Now that’s utterly sweet. Try persuading her to talk, “What is your problem? Why can’t you let me be? Can’t I have a moment of silence? Why do you constantly talk? Just leave me alone. I knew we would have problems. The issue is, you talk so much and I talk only sense or else when required.” Yeah. That’s confusing. 
  •  She would mock you in every sentence, to make you realize that you are a sinner! (Try ignoring, “Yeah…now you’re so dumb, or else you pretend as if you don’t get it. How could you be this insensitive? I thought we understood each other. I was so wrong about you.” What follows are the usual weeps and sobs. Try poking her to spill the beans, “I expect you to understand without me pointing out your mistake! You are so old now, when will you actually grow up? Stop behaving like a child. Can’t you interpret this much even?” )
Arguing with a woman will never prove to be a triumph. If supposedly you did succeed once, chances are she will be back, this time with full supply of arm and ammunition. *Grins* As they say…

“Women get the last word in every argument.  Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument." ~Author Unknown


To be continued…


Aditi
5/30/2012 09:51:31 pm

Amazing Stuff Girlie.! I Agree completely agree.. *sheepish grin* We will tell men what we want when we will know our self :D :D :D

5/30/2012 09:54:16 pm

Hahaha...yup yupp... xD Until then...let's just keep the secret tight and safe...

Thanks a lot for reading :)

Guru
5/30/2012 10:18:04 pm

I knw wat Women Want ;-)

5/30/2012 10:33:29 pm

hahaha...wow sir xD You succeeded to finally unravel the mystery...

Thanks soo much for stopping by :)

Pratik Jain
5/30/2012 10:25:17 pm

i thought you see both the sides of the coin...where has your intellect gone now!!??!!
chauvinist!!!

5/30/2012 10:30:36 pm

Chauvinist?? LOL...rather I am trying to prove here how lost women are actually...and trying to figure what we want....men shouldn't waste their time.

Haha...but yeah...typical men....you would only see this as...haw! how cruel women are...only trying to gain pity and sympathy from the post...how lame can they be!! Trying to gain attraction by saying they are clueless about themselves. Liars!! Boastful liars....

If you read clearly between the lines...my post is two way conversation between two parties...where women are shown, quite lucidly, how confused their behavior is. Ismein chauvinist kahan se aagaya??

nura
5/30/2012 10:26:42 pm

It will forever be a mystery to what a women actually want because she will deny the want want the unwanted and leave the one she had, perhaps its because she may want more than one thing and cant focus as which to give the more priority but thats how us females are were and will be it's for the men to unravel and appreciate who cant will never see the potential with which we could love and care for them

5/30/2012 10:32:31 pm

Bang on!! Exactly.... but yeah...men with their enormous, gigantic....EGOS... wish they could put it aside for a while...not trying to figure out what we want...and see what we need...

Guru
5/30/2012 10:40:48 pm

Oh oh oh HOLD on Ladies ,,,, Take it easy ;; if I'm allowed to reveal !!!!!( Widout any ego , angst or hard feelins ) . ALL dat women want is a little bit of attention , a little bit of love n a whole lot of CONVENIENCE . N to all those who might get superxcited or offended "TO B READ IN A LIGHTER VEIN"

5/30/2012 10:44:17 pm

hahahaha sir!! You are absolutely right...I wish other's could even understand this thing :)

5/30/2012 10:46:40 pm

Women need security, trust in her, a sense of belief that they could love and equally feel...obviously nobody wants an argument...

we are surely confused...but we need is a bit of effort from the other side...to may be understand us...at least try to...

nura
5/30/2012 10:46:55 pm

@guru well if you know it then do care for the women like you do now, today and till the day u die...i feel its the lack of continuation of affection is what makes us feel that men are nil and so full to the brim.

Guru
5/31/2012 02:10:16 am

@ ,, D beauty of d word CONVENIENCE lies in its Flexibility to interpret it acc to one's convenience ;-)


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